Cheerfulness is the best promoter of health and is as friendly to the mind as to the body. - Joseph Addison
I think a lot about things that make me happy, things that I expect to make me happy that actually don't and things that make other people happy that don't make me happy.
But there is also a category of ridiculously tiny things that make me disproportionately happy. One day, there will be clinical evidence of how much each of these activities contributes to mental health. Try one / some / all of them...
- Paint your toenails: feet are gross. I get that. But looking down to your 10 brightly-coloured foot-fingers (disgusting, no?) is disproportionately happiness-making.
- Give or get a hug: hug anyone. Accept a hug from anyone. Even if you think you're not a hugger.
- Take a hot shower: I defy anyone to wash their hair, loofah themselves and rinse off their makeup and not feel great.
- Listen to classical music: nothing else so effectively mellows you out and perks you up. If you aren't sure where to start, start here, with Mahler No. 9.
- Read the weekend papers (on paper, not online): seriously, it's pleasant.
- While you're at it, have a cup of really good coffee.
- Doing all of your laundry: this may be my least feminist (Boyfriend: "but also super-useful") trait, but I think there are few achievements as emotionally satisfying as having done all your laundry. Grammy? Whatever...Nobel Prize? Pffffttt... Empty hamper? Incomparably rewarding.

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